Angelica: Honey I have a problem. My internet bill is due today and I cannot pay it. You: Why can’t you pay it? I already sent you $100 two weeks ago plus you started your new job at the call center 2 months ago. Angelica: As I already told you I’m only earning 6000 every 2 weeks. You: Hmm that’s interesting because last month you told me you make 10,000 every two weeks Angelica: I meant to say 10,000 pesos…sorry baby… You: Uh-huh I gotta go
How to Know if Your Filipina is HonestYou just caught your Filipina in a lie because you had actual numbers. Filipinas can be master manipulators and you need to look out for some of their tricks. Your best weapon to know if your Filipina is honest it to have a good memory. Judge Judy always says when you tell the truth you don’t need a good memory. Fact: Filipino scammers that like to lie are most likely chatting with multiple guys and telling them multiple stories. It’s hard to keep track of all those stories and eventually, they’ll slip up.
Specificity is Your FriendWhen you’re chatting up a girl in The Philippines always try to get specifics when having a conversation. For example, if you’re talking about your jobs, don’t just ask what she does. Ask her what her job title is. You can do this tactfully. If she tells you she graduated from college ask her what her degree is in and what university specifically. Fun fact: The top universities ‘The Big 4’ in The Philippines are: University of The Philippines, Ateneo University, De La Salle University, University of Santo Tomas Remember that Facebook messages don’t go away. Anytime she gives you a number you can cross-reference it with a number she gave you before. Whenever she asks for money always make her give a detailed explanation of why she needs it. Use ‘what about’ questions. For instance, if she’s claiming to need money for her Lola’s hospital bill, make sure you ask ‘well what about your job?’ ‘What about’ questions are a great way to get her to give you numbers. Related: Why Filipinas Always Ask For Money
Ask for DetailsA lot of times Filipina scammers will try to lie about having the same interests as you. If she tells you she has a particular interest ask more questions about it. If, for example, she tells you her faith is strong and she goes to church every Sunday ask her what her favorite Bible verse is. A true Christian woman of faith shouldn’t have any problem telling you her favorite bible verse without even having to think about it.
Do What The Cops DoWhen the cops interrogate someone they’ll ask a question, get the answer, and then they’ll ‘confirm’ a different answer later in the interview. This is a good tactic because it goes back to what I said earlier. If you tell the truth you don’t need a good memory. You can ask her what subject is her degree in and let’s say she tells you it’s in Hotel and Restaurant Management, when you first meet and maybe after a month ago you can bring it up in conversation that she said she had a degree in Caregiving (yes that’s a degree in The Philippines).
Common Things Filipinas Lie AboutJust remember their goal is to get you to like them so you’ll give them a better life. So here are some common lies you’re likely to hear if you chat with enough Pinays
- Telling you she’s a virgin
- Saying you’re the only foreigner that she’s ever chatted with
- Claiming love after 1 or 2 chats
- Lying about the strength of her faith
- A typhoon blew down her house
- Her lola (grandma) is in the hospital
- She has no children
- That she graduated from college